Asia's 2nd professional haircut

Asia and I went to get our haircut yesterday. I had a coupon for a free child hair cut with a full pay adult haircut. I was in the mood for a change in hairstyle anyway. My bangs are growing out and part of it likes to hang near my eyes, rubbing against my face. It's that annoying piece that you can feel is there and won't go away unless you mousse or spray it or put a silly barrette in. And then the weather has been so dry, that my hair is all staticy and that little part of growing out bang clings to my face even worse. On Asia's side, her bangs are getting into her eyes and the length of her hair over all is getting unmanageable - getting into her food, her mouth, etc. I could easily trim it, but it would be nice for her bangs to be straight once in awhile. This was also my idea of mommy and daughter time. Yes, let's get our hair done! I see us doing this as a tradition - mom and daughter getting their hair done, nails done, pedicures. Sounds so typical right? Dad and son spend time fishing or hunting. Mom and daughter spend time beautifying themselves. Oh well. It's like when I was pregnant and said my daughter wouldn't be wearing pink all the time. Well, she's not wearing pink ALL the time, but she has her pink blanket, her pink sippy cup, her pink bear....
So back to the haircut. I coaxed Asia into the hair salon with promises of chocolate. "Where's chocolate?" Asia would ask in the car. "I'll give it to you when we get there." Then we get to the hair salon, "Where's chocolate?" "You'll get it when you're getting your hair cut." "Will it hurt?" Asia asks. I think she's remember when I brush her hair. Yank, Ouch! Sorry, your hair is full of knots. Amongst other things - dough, paint, whatever.
So luckily we got the manager who is good with kids. I told her the one thing Asia really doesn't like is being sprayed with the water bottle. Back in Chicago when she got her hair cut, she would bawl when they sprayed her hair because it would never fail that the residual mist (which would be cold, I 'm sure) would waft into her face. So the manager, Gwen, would spray her comb and then comb Asia's hair to wet it down. Very smart. I stood next to Asia the whole time, feeding her M & M's, showing her that her doll Belle was sitting there watching. Gwen would ask Asia about her brother Zach and Asia wouldn't talk back but would nod or hold up her fingers to show how old she was. Eventually she loosened up more which meant she was curious enough to look around now. Not the easiest way to cut hair. But no crying happened. We went through one small bag of M&M's and one mini Twix bar. She then got a balloon which occupied her while I was getting my hair cut.
The bummer is that my coupon didn't take. It was a coupon for Great Clips that I got off of a cereal box. We were at Supercuts. Ha! Oh well.

Here's a picture of Zach's class during Halloween. Zach is the fireman in the back. The pink fairy is Emme. The princess in the yellow wig is Julia. The black caterpillar is Lance. The cowboy next to Zach is Gary. The green Grinch is Josh. The scarecrow is Briar. Princess Leia is actually Riley. The purple fairy is Carly. Belle is Rachel. Batman is Anthony. The power ranger is Luke.

Here's the kids in the backyard with their Auntie Es and her dog Corey and me in the early Fall 2005.

Karate Zach

Okay, not really karate. It's taekwondo. Zach graduated today from the first belt - white - to orange belt! He had to earn 6 black stripes on his white belt and then test into the next level. Of course, that also meant forking over 50 dollars for the test fee and belt. I was told there is a certificate, but I didn't see that. Anyway, the main thing is that it's an outlet for Zach's energy. He's really enjoying it, getting to know some of the kids in his class. I think it's a confidence booster. But mainly, I enjoy seeing him stick with it over these past months and going to class with enthusiasm. The teachers are pretty good. They keep the little kids in this class interested. The class is called Tiny Tigers. I don't remember what the age limit is, but it's like 4 years to 7 or 8 or 6? There are some really little kids in it. They're so cute to watch. Some of them seem like they're not even tall enough to jump over some of the barricades the teachers put up for an obstacle course. All the kids get the white shirt and pants for free and those outifts are pretty much one size. So a lot of the little kids are swimming in these outfits. One mom hemmed the pants for her son and pointed out that she hemmed one leg shorter than the other. :) I keep forgetting to at least fold up Zach's sleeves. Today, I wanted to walk into the classroom to fix Zach's shirt. We were in a hurry, as usual, to get to class so he had his coat on before I had his belt on. I had him lift his coat up so I can tie on his belt. I didn't find out til he took off his coat and went to class that I had only tied in half of shirt in the back. The rest was hanging out all sloppy. When Zach was trying to do his test with his teacher, he kept having to pull his shirt down because it was falling off. Luckily he didn't care, he was having too much fun.

Back in Chicago

J, the kids and I am back in Chicago for the week. I'm teaching a training class in our downtown office in Merch. Mart. We're staying in the Holiday Inn connected to the Mart. The view is beautiful from the 21st floor. We can see the trains going by, all the cars and traffic going across the bridges, and where the two rivers intersect. I was walking to the training class in the morning and going past the train station turnstiles and elevators and it felt great to be with all these people going to work. It made me miss a big city environment. People well-dressed going to work. It just felt neat to be part of a big group like that.
Anyway, the kids seem to be having a ball seeing their old babysitters and cousins and whatnot. Ellen, Katie, Justin, Lizzy, Seth, Rron and his parents. I miss the restaurants here too! Great food at high prices. ha! So I don't miss the cost of everything, but the thing is that in most of the restaurants, you're not only paying for awesome food, but for awesome service and often great ambience.

My beautiful kids in our dining room window.

Zach is taking taekwando classes now. Today was his second class and he got his free uniform. It's so cute! All white with a white belt. He has to get six stripes to get to the next belt - orange. His first stripe is after he memorizes this greeting about mind, body, etc. John said he takes it very seriously in class. When I took him for his first day, he ran right in there for his intro class which was a one-on-one with the instructor. The instructor was a high school student who said he only teaches on Saturday since he has marching band in the weekday evenings. Zach said his teacher was really cool. I am so glad he's enjoying it.

We also had a great birthday party for Zach on Tuesday. Some of his friends from school came: Ryley, Emme, Briar, Lance, Gary, and Joshua. Then Ethan, Aletheia, Acacia, Sydney, and Travis. Everyone had a great time. My parents and Es were also there. Asia has been asking for her Nai-Nai and Auntie Es ever since.

For Thanksgiving, my Aunt and Uncle from Stow, OH, came to visit along with my cousins Wayne and George. It was fun listening to my mom and my uncle talk about old times in Taiwan.

no cats for us

At my suggestion, John took Zach and Asia to an animal shelter to play with
some kittens. We suspected Zach might be allergic to cats, though his
reactions weren't consistent. John said that one time he and Zach spent the
night at a friend's house who had cats and the next morning, Zach was
complaining that it was hard to breathe. As soon as they left the house,
Zach was fine. I've never seen this happen myself. Another time though, we
were at John's sister's house in TN and after playing with some barn cats,
Zach complained that his eye was hurting. It was all red, but he was also
really tired and ended up taking a long nap after that. Anyway, so this
time, they were playing with the cats and John said Zach started sneezing
and felt his neck was kind of itchy. John himself felt itchy. But it was
Asia who had the worst reaction of them all. Driving home, she started
sneezing. Then when John brought her in, her eyes were almost swollen shut!
My poor baby! I gave her some Benadryl so we'll see how she does. Anyway,
unfortunately, no cats for us at least for a few more years.

Lesson Failed

Over the summer, I tried to teach Zach his first lesson in money - how to spend it, what it's worth. There was a neighborhood yard sale a block away, so John and I decided to take the kids there to check it out - the neighbors, their junk, and just have a nice time outside in the summer sun. I gave Zach and Asia each a quarter and said that they could use it to buy something at the yard sale. Both put their money in their pockets for safe-keeping. In the meantime, Zach managed to find two dimes laying around the house and added them to his stash.
We drove to the yard sale since we were going to explore more of Pittsburgh downtown after the yard sale. The first yard we looked at didn't have any kids things. Mostly hunting things and a really expensive old trunk. I thought it could be a good toy chest, but it cost something like 20 dollars or more. I couldn't see what was so special with that trunk. The next few houses had lots of kids things. Asia and I stayed at those houses for awhile, looking at the dolls and books. Zach and John went ahead to another house down the street. Asia managed to get a magic wand and two Barbie dolls for 20 cents. I also bought some half-used workbooks for Zach. A little girl ran into her house showing the money she made- about a dollar. I could hear her brother telling her she had to share the money. They were really excited about earning that dollar. Meanwhile, Asia had succeeded in her first money lesson.
Zach, on the other hand, had lost all his money! The dimes had slipped out of his pockets or hands or something. I think I even found one of the dimes in the toy box where Asia and I had bought the dolls. I gave it to the little girl who was selling her stuff. Zach lost his quarter because he found this big plastic car and thought it was a ride! He put his quarter in a hole in the car. We shook the car and could hear the quarter clunking around inside. So Zach failed his lesson. Asia shared her magic wand with him, so he was happy. He also said that we could go home at any time and get more money. He didn't think it was a big deal. A miserable failure there. Oh well.
But I wonder, is he too young to grasp the concept of money or is it that he sees how loose we are with money and thinks it's readily available to use or lose whenever he wants? Maybe I'm just being paranoid and overanalyzing. That's what Mom's do, you know.

Asia starts preschool

Asia started at St. Paul's preschool yesterday. Her program is on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9 to 11:30 AM. Far cry from last year when she went to Taylor Tots every day from 9 AM to 4 PM. Zach's progam is also shorter - Mon thru Thurs 12:30 - 3 PM. Definitely not designed for families where both parents work. There wasn't enough interest at St. Paul's to have a full week program or even for Asia's group to have a 3 day program! Crazy. That shows you the lifestyle here in Pittsburgh - or actually West View. Much more laid back than Chicago. We are truly in a suburb.

So anyway, Asia was so good in class! She didn't cry at all when I dropped her off and she didn't want to leave when I picked her up. The first day was only an hour and fifteen minutes. Her class was split into two for the first day so the teachers can get to know the class better.
There were 3 girls in her group and I think 4 boys. The two other girls names are Grace and Dakota.

Becoming a home

The new house is slowly becoming our home. We haven't done anything yet like paint the walls, but I have hung up some pictures. Most of the major furniture is in. A/C is in! A big plus. I'm holding off on doing too much planting since I don't have that much time and am not sure on what the soil and weather is like. I do want to eventually redo the front yard. It's a great front yard space that right now isn't being used too much. Since we're on such a busy street, I don't want the kids to play in the front yard, so there really isn't much reason to have so much grass. It could be great for landscaping!
John put in new French doors to my office - a little sunroom to the side of the house. Lots of windows - which is great for me since I like to look out the windows. The negative is that it's the hottest room in the house. And that isn't good late in the afternoon when I find myself looking out the windows, daydreaming, when I should be working. :)

moving

We're moving! Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, here we come! It'll be a big difference from Chicago. I'm going to miss the big city. The beautiful downtown and lakefront. Just as I was starting to get to know the city on my own. Taking art classes at Gallery 37. Learning the art of taking the Blue
Line to Clark and Lake and the Brown Line to Merchandise Mart and then the Purple Line back during rush hour. We finally have a Target at Roosevelt and Clark that's easy to park in and nice to shop in. A Kohl's just opened that we'll never get to try out. Good-bye Marshall Field's where we bought our furniture in the gently used furniture area and where we bought our rugs after having a nice Indian man bring down rug after rug for us to figure out if it'll go with our flowered futon cover. No, Chicago isn't all about shopping. I'll miss the restaurants on Taylor St. The ethnic restaurants in China Town and Korea Town. I wonder if I can have someone send me some good kimchee. :)

What I won't miss is the traffic, the cost, the projects. Our "ghetto" Jewel. Feeling unsafe when I stop by Jim's to get a good hot dog along I-90. But I will miss the coolness of having something like Maxwell Street market. Bringing Zach to the Sherwood Music Conservatory for his drum
lesson and then afterwards, going to Jamba Juice for a chocolate milk shake and then going to Barbara's Bookstore to look at kids books. I know with our move that we'll make new memories and have our new adventures. The tough thing is something John mentioned the other day, "Asia will grow up with hardly any recollection of Chicago." Our kids will really miss out in the
chance to grow up in Chicago. All the opportunities. But I may not have to worry about trying to get Zach and Asia into a really good elementary school, jr. high, and high school. There's not that much choice where we're going, and luckily, the choices are good schools. I was wondering how we were going to have to prep Zach for testing into a good kindergarten. I mean, come on! Now I don't have to worry about that as much. So there we have it. As of tomorrow, good bye Chicago! Hello Pittsburgh!

big hugs

Zach and Asia are in that age where they can be so loving and a few minutes later, be hitting each other and fighting. Zach likes to tease Asia. He knows exactly how to push her buttons! All he has to do is say a few words to her and get her upset. Like he'll say, "Green Bear." That's
it! And Asia will cry, "No, MY GREEN BEAR!!" Of course, Green Bear has to be in the room. Then Zach will see Asia put down something that was in her hands. He'll quickly pick it up and either say, "Asia, look what I have." Or he'll say, "Where did ____ go?" That gets Asia upset too.

On the other hand, both kids will play so well with each other. There latest is going into the pantry and grabbing whatever they can reach. Then they'll bring it outside in the balcony and set up a grocery store or a tower. I have to remember at the end of the day to check the balcony for perishables or electronics in case it rains.

Another thing that the kids do is they'll come up to me and hug me and say, "You're my best friend." So sweet.

Oooey Gooey!

Asia's picture.

My painters. Notice how Zach likes to paint - with his hands, lots of colors, using all the paint. Asia, on the other hand, likes to use a paint brush and dab a little paint here and there. But she's quickly picking up her brother's method.

Asia wearing the hat I got from Malaysia in 1998. It fits her better than it ever fit me.

Zach's first note home from school

Well, it happened. Zach had a note from his teacher in his folder regarding behavior problems. The teacher said that Zach was having problems listening during play time, work time, and line time. That sounds like all the time. He brings home a little report card every day that will have a stamp on it to indicate his behavior that day - a smiley face, a sad face, an okay face. Sometimes he'll get a star on it and a Wow! under the happy face. Other times, it'll be a sad face with a box around it saying he didn't listen. Last week was pretty bad. Lots of didn't listens and sad faces. Then this week has been sad faces so far. I'm not sure what's up. He's been eating well and getting enough sleep. The only other thing is our getting ready to sell the house. There are boxes everywhere and J's been working on the house a lot. So maybe this is unsettling him. Or maybe he's just bored with school now that it's toward the end of the year. How can you tell with a 4-year old?
On the other hand, Zach's eating habits have greatly improved. Along with his fear of the dark and being alone. He'll venture downstairs or upstairs at least once by himself, then he might ask one of us or Asia to go with him the second time. I also found out the kid likes hard-boiled eggs! And raw carrot sticks! That and his usual love of noodles with parmesan cheese (don't you dare put any sauce on it!), meat on the bone (chicken legs or ribs), rice (but has to be sticky), and chicken.

Disney

Today is day three of our Disney World trip in Orlando, Florida. I won the trip in a drawing at work. You get your name put in the drawing when you provide a good work experience for a client or co-worker. So far, 3 out of the 4 drawings winners have been from my interface team. The prize includes 3 nights stay, 3 day park hopper pass to all parks, and airfare. We didn't decide until beginning of February that we wanted to go to Florida during John's spring break. Not the greatest time to go since that's when everyone else in the world goes, right? Oh well. I had to use the tickets in a year and I had won them in September or October. Well, I didn't tell our company travel agent until beginning of February that we wanted to go Mid-March, so she wasn't able to find us a hotel on the Disney property. So instead we're staying at Homewood Suites (Hilton chain) on International Drive. A two bedroom suite - one bedroom has two double beds and the other has a king-size bed. Then it has a common room with sofa, arm chair, dining table with 2 chairs, stove, dishwasher, microwave, sink, and cabinets. Plus all the plates/cups/silverware that you'd need. Very nice.
We took Southwest and arrived around noon on Monday 3/21. Got to the hotel around 2 PM. Then to Disney MGM Studios around 4. The kids loved it even though it poured buckets. I had bought the kids and John and myself rain poncho's - a tip from some Disney and travel websites. We also brought our double stroller that has canopies over each seat. The kids were pretty dry except for their feet (soaked from the run from the car to the parking tram). Parking is pretty convenient because there's a tram train that drives up and takes you to the park. The only inconvenient thing is folding up the double stroller to stick in the tram.
So at MGM Studios, we saw a Little Mermaid show - very cool. It was part laser show, movie, and actors. The beginning had actors all dressed in black holding puppets of fish and Sebastien the lobster. There must have been black lighting or something because you couldn't see the people unless you squinted and stared really hard. We had seats in the 2nd row too. The line also wasn't too long because it was raining and probably less people at the park. There was no line at all to get in to Playhouse Disney's show. We saw Bear in the Big Blue House, Stanley, Roley Poley Olie, and best of all, Pooh Bear. Asia really got excited when Pooh Bear and his friends came out on stage to sing. They were mostly all puppets. Very neat. Also both shows had special effects like bubbles coming down on to the audience. And none of it was scary for Zach. I thought he might get scared when lights went out or in Little Mermaid when the scary Octopus witch comes out. He was fine the whole time.
Wednesday, we went to Epcot. It was a beautiful day. It was supposed to have thunderstorms, but that ended up not hitting til way past bedtime. It was so hot! John paid ten dollars for sun screen. Again, the kids has a good time. We were there from about 11 AM til 3 PM. A little too long for the kids since they started to get too wild and grumpy. There was still so much to see at Epcot. We went into one exhibit that was all about fire safety, TV, and video games. Then we went to World Showcase for lunch. We were pretty hungry so we didn't see most of the different countries and made a beeline for Germany. We ate at a great buffet restaurant that had live German dancing and music. Outside was a model train station that Zach and Asia didn't want to leave. While I was with the kids watching the trains go around (and little lizards jumping around), Zach accosted a curly headed boy and gave him a tour of the train yard. He kept his arm at the kids back and was telling him, "And look at this train there! And this one little one!" It was pretty funny. The little boy's mom and I laughed. Good thing she laughed, too. Wouldn't want her to wonder why this strange boy won't take his hand off of her son's back.
Then we visited the China exhibit and got some paper masks. Also a bus of Disney characters was driving around the park so the kids got to see Mickey, Minnie, and Goofy, etc. Zach said he didn't like the character's costumes, but at the same time, he was intrigued. Asia kept wanting to see Goofy and Mickey. We got back to the hotel around 3 and then went swimming in the hotel pool. The water was freezing! We still had fun. They also had a jacuzzi, so the kids stayed in that most of the time. After about 1 1/2 hours, we went back to our room where Asia took a long nap - maybe another 1 1/2 hours. Ordered out at the restaurant near the hotel, called Bahama Breeze. Then by the time dinner was over, it was already 8 PM. Too late to go to the parks for the kids (Magic Kindom was open til midnight, the rest of the parks closed around9). So we went for a walk down International Drive to a nearby mall. The mall courtyard had a fountain that you could run in - Zach did that and played with another little boy at the park. Then I went shopping at one of the stores and bought myself 2 shirts and Asia one shirt - all for 25 dollars! The kids were pretty tired and we returned home around 10 PM. What a day!

Stomach bug hits again

Poor Asia caught a stomach bug, a bad one too. It's funny, she's fine and then without warning, she starts throwing up. She threw up every 3 hours or so. In addition, she had diarrhea. The vomiting lasted for a day, then disappeared for almost a full day, then returned again for another day. The diarrhea lasted almost a week. The poor girl didn't keep anything down or eat anything for 2 1/2 days. But as soon as her appetite returned and she could keep things down, she ate humongous amounts of food - even if it was only Cheerio's, bread, bananas, and other bland soft stuff.
Oh yeah, the day Asia got sick, an hour later, I got it. Just nausea and diarrhea. Then John got it - just mostly nausea. I kept spraying Lysol everywhere, washing sheets and towels constantly, and had to keep telling Zach to stay away from me and Asia. After a day, I missed holding him and kissing him. Zach kept asking when we were going to be not sick. Luckily, he didn't catch the bug. Amazing.